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8 skills, 28 days each

Every growth area is a ladder: 28 challenges, one a day, in three phases. It starts so small that day one usually asks you to notice something and tell nobody. By the end you are doing it where it costs something. The app picks the area your profile makes hardest, but you choose.

The three phases

  1. Day 1–7

    Notice

    Watch it happen. Nobody else has to know.

  2. Day 8–14

    Try it small

    Do it where it costs you nothing.

  3. Day 15–28

    For real

    The people and rooms that actually matter.

Empathy

Reading what someone feels, and letting it land

Name one feeling you see today — Feelings are easy to miss because nobody announces them. Naming one is where reading people starts.

  • Seeing an argument from the other side
  • Sitting with someone who is upset

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Social Skills

Getting into rooms and conversations you would otherwise skip

Count the openings you let pass — You cannot get into more rooms until you can see the doors, and most people have no idea how many they walk past in a single day.

  • Joining a conversation that is already going
  • Suggesting a specific day and time to meet up
  • Walking into a room where you know nobody

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Emotional Expression

Saying what you feel while you are still feeling it

Check in with yourself three times — You cannot say what you feel if you do not know what it is, and most people skip that step for years. Three small check-ins start rebuilding the wire between feeling and words.

  • Telling someone that they upset you
  • Naming what you feel out loud, in the moment

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Active Listening

Hearing someone out instead of waiting for your turn

Count your urges to jump in — You can't loosen a reflex you have never watched run. A number makes the invisible habit visible.

  • Listening to a problem without offering a solution
  • Asking a second and third question about someone else
  • Letting a silence sit instead of filling it

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Conflict Resolution

Staying in the room when you disagree

Count every disagreement you have today — Most people think conflict is rare in their life, so they never prepare for it. Seeing the real number shows how many chances to practice an ordinary day hands you for free.

  • Disagreeing with someone more senior than you
  • Raising a problem before it turns into an argument
  • Staying calm when someone criticizes your work

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Expressing Appreciation

Telling people what they did well, out loud

Count the compliments you hear today — Most people are surprised how low the number is. Seeing the gap between how much good work happens and how little of it gets named is what makes the next 27 days worth doing.

  • Telling someone exactly what you appreciate about them
  • Praising someone in front of other people

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Vulnerability

Letting someone see the part you would rather hide

Tally every "I'm fine" you say today — You can't loosen a habit you haven't seen. Most people are startled by how often the shutter comes down without them deciding anything.

  • Asking someone for help when you are stuck
  • Admitting a mistake without softening it
  • Telling a friend you are having a hard time

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Small Talk

The first two minutes with someone you barely know

Watch five conversations start — Almost every chat starts with an ordinary line, not a brilliant one. Seeing that with your own eyes takes the pressure off before you say a single word.

  • Speaking first in a group of strangers
  • Keeping a casual chat going past the first minute

See the ladder

Find out where you actually stand.

Five minutes for the assessment. 7 days free after that.

Coming to the App Store

iPhone · iOS 17 or later